I’d never pretend divorce was easy. Finding even one of the positives of divorce was almost impossible for me at the time. I honestly thought I was going to die. And often wished I had. BUT, more than 12 years on, I’m very grateful things turned out the way that they did. And I can…
Co‑parenting with your ex is not a beautiful journey of mutual growth…It’s more like being forced to do a group project with someone who loads the dishwasher wrong. Except the project is a whole human child and the deadline is 18 years. You’re going to mess up. We all do. But some messes leave deeper…

Connecting to your children after a divorce doesn’t need grand gestures, expensive gifts, constant entertainment, or carefully orchestrated heart-to-heart conversations. In fact, those approaches often backfire. Children, especially those processing something as major as a family split, tend to open up sideways. They talk when they’re doing something else, when nobody is watching them too…